Life After Cystectomy: Adjusting To A New Normal
- Bladder removal surgery, or cystectomy, often comes with many questions about what to expect from day-to-day life as patients adjust to living with a new urinary diversion, such as a urostomy (ileal conduit) or a neobladder.
- Dr. Matthew Mossanen, a urologic oncologist at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, says that he often encourages patients to speak to other survivors to get first-hand accounts about what it’s like adjusting to this new normal.
- After bladder removal surgery, practical questions about how to use the restroom, sleep, exercise, and intimacy, are common.
- While doctors are there to give medical guidance, peer support can help patients feel more prepared for what life post-surgery will be like.
After the bladder is removed, urine will need to be diverted in a new way, a change that’s nerve-wracking to many patients.
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- What will urinary function be like day-to-day?
- Can I swim or exercise?
- How might intimacy or sexual function change?
Doctors can help explain the medical aspects of recovery. But sometimes, the most practical insights come from people who have already gone through the experience.
Gaining Insight From Fellow Survivors
Dr. Mossanen often encourages patients to connect with bladder cancer survivors who are willing to share their experiences.
“I have a group of bladder cancer survivors that have been kind enough to share their contact information,” he says. “I give that information to patients so they can connect.”
Those conversations can be incredibly helpful because survivors often understand the day-to-day realities in ways even experienced doctors may not fully capture.
“Even though I’m the surgeon and I understand the surgery and the recovery, sometimes patients really need to connect with other patients to go through their questions about urinary function, sexual function, and recovery after such a big operation,” Dr. Mossanen explains.
For many people, talking with another patient can make the future feel less uncertain. Hearing firsthand how someone adjusted — what challenges they faced and how they solved them — can provide reassurance and practical guidance.
Peer Support & Recovery
While doctors obviously play a critical role in helping patients understand their options and preparing them for surgery, combining medical guidance with peer support can help patients feel more confident about what lies ahead.
In addition to discussions with their care team, patients may benefit from:
- Trusted educational resources online
- Bladder cancer support groups
- One-on-one conversations with survivors
Together, these perspectives can help patients prepare for the surgery, recovery, and the future.
Questions To Ask Your Doctor
- What should I expect from the cystectomy recovery process?
- Are there any support groups or resources you recommend for me?
- How will I be monitored after surgery?
- What potential side effects should I be aware of?
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