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Olympic gold medalist Scott Hamilton, 61, has done far more than beat competitors in the rink. The broadcaster, cancer advocate and, now, author of a children’s book to help kids cope with a parent’s cancer diagnosis, has inspired so many with his positivity, and the grace with which he lives his life.Over the years, Hamilton has dealt with testicular cancer and three benign brain tumors. Like all survivors, has had his share of stress and fears. When he had cancer, he tells SurvivorNet in an uplifting and generous interview, it was hard to know what would happen next. Chemotherapy, he says, was especially anxiety provoking.
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Hamilton and his wife, Tracie Hamilton, have four kids — the couple adopted a boy and girl, siblings, from Haiti in 2014 — and his own journey, of course, went into the book’s creation. But the book was actually inspired by his beloved mother, Dorthy Hamilton, who died of breast cancer when he was a teenager.
Being Prepared for Cancer
Dorothy Hamilton was 49 when she passed away, two years after being diagnosed. And his children’s book — about a boy who ice skates and whose mother has the disease — was inspired by how she “told me [about her diagnosis] and how she prepared us for cancer,” Hamilton says. “It was not done in a really scary way. She was very upbeat, almost positive, and kind of smiling when she said she had cancer. I was like, ‘I thought cancer was a bad thing.’ But she didn’t appear that it bothered her at all.”
By not appearing concerned by the diagnosis, she gave her children permission not to be as well, he says. His mom also gave them a sense of purpose, just like Fritzy in his book does, when he sets off to find a hat to keep his mom warm.
“The whole idea behind ‘Fritzy Finds a Hat’ is mom has got a problem and Fritzy’s going to solve it,” says Hamilton. “[My mother] informed us that she was going to need some help and some support around the house. And so, that empowered us to be a part of her journey.”
Hamilton’s Cancer Journey
In 1997, Hamilton was diagnosed with testicular cancer and then returned to skating after a public battle with the disease. He retired in 2001 and, in 2004, found himself facing the first brain tumor. The second was in 2010 and the third, 2016.
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When Hamilton was diagnosed with the initial brain tumor, his first son, Aidan, was only 1 years old. When he was diagnosed again, Aidan was 7 and his second son, Maxx, was 2 years old — too young, Hamilton says, to fully understand what their dad was facing.
When he was diagnosed with his third brain tumor, he says, he took what his mom taught him and, when they asked if his brain tumor was back, Hamilton says he gave them a straightforward answer: “‘It is.’ And I just put the biggest smile on my face. And they go, ‘Are you going to be OK?'”
His answer? “‘Of course! I’m fine. Do I look nervous? … Everything is fine. And I’m not sweeping it under the rug.'”
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It’s important, Hamilton says, to know about how to talk to children about cancer, and for them to know “that they have the power and the ability to help their parents regardless of what the struggle is.”
Alongside the new book and Chemocare.com, Hamilton has found a multitude of ways to help other cancer patients, survivors and their families. On the fundraising side is the Scott Hamilton Cares Foundation, dedicated to funding innovative research. As for support, he created the 4th Angel Mentoring Program, in which patients and caregivers are matched with trained volunteer mentors with similar age and cancer experiences.
“Every day that I’m going through this, I’m going to find a way to laugh, I’m going to find a way to enjoy myself,” Hamilton says. “I’m going to find a way to love on my family and my friends. It’s a journey.”
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